Funny thing life. Just when you think you have figured it out, it slaps you in the face.
A relationship is so complex. Man-woman. Husband-wife. Friend-foe. Parent-child.
Some seem to be blessed with very strong relationships. Ones that cannot be destroyed. They withstand anything life throws at them. So it seems.
Beware. This I know for sure. Any of our relationships is at the mercy of just one angry word spoken in haste, one ill-timed act or gesture away from painful termination.
Most of this we can control if we are cognizant, determined and desirous.
The things we cannot control or even understand continue to haunt me. As Vince Lombardi once said, “What the hell is going on out there?”
There is someone in my life who feels I did them wrong. That I did not do them right. That I was not all that I could be or should have been. And I am clueless. I have absolutely no idea why this feeling exists. Furthermore, I know that this individual is wrong. The perception is absolutely incorrect.
This individual is very immature and deals with life in a manner I simply do not understand.
This matter has never been discussed with me. I only know of it because I am accused behind my back and it has all slowly trickled back to me. The backstabbing is very painful.
I have almost reached the point of no return. The time may be near. I may have to sever the ties that bind. The thought of it pains me immensely.
Once in awhile, life sucks.
“Don’t drink and park – accidents cause people.” – Unknown